Time and Tide never stops nor waits for anyone.
As the saying goes, life fits perfectly to it.
Consider
Past - Unachieved Task.
Present - Complete to the best.
Future - Do not plan as tomorrow never dies.
Live life to the fullest for present, do not overlook past or expect future.
If you are able to make out the present life merry, thats the achievement.
Take up the life/task as it comes and complete with joy.
If the same rhyme is followed all through your life, that would be the biggest achievement which could keep you satisfied.
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Tuesday, August 4, 2009
கொடுங்கள்.. பெறுவீர்கள்!....
பாலைவனத்தில் பயணம் செய்து கொண்டிருந்த ஒருவன் கொண்டு வந்திருந்த தண்ணீர் தீர்ந்து விட்டது. அவன் போக வேண்டிய தூரமோ அதிகம். குடிக்க தண்ணீர் இல்லாமல் அவன் மயங்கி விழும் நிலைக்கு வந்து விட்டான். இந்த பாலைவனத்திலேயே தாகத்தால் உயிரை விட்டு விடுவோமோ என்று நினைத்துக் கொண்டு இருந்த போது தூரத்தில் ஒரு குடிசை போல ஏதோ ஒன்று தெரிந்தது. கால்களை நகர்த்தவே மிகவும் கஷ்டமாக இருந்தாலும் எப்படியோ கஷ்டப்பட்டு அவன் அந்த இடத்திற்கு சென்று விட்டான்.
அங்கே ஆட்கள் யாரும் இல்லை. ஒரு கையால் அடித்து இயக்கும் பம்ப் செட்டும் அருகே ஒரு ஜக்கில் தண்ணீரும் இருந்தன. ஒரு அட்டையில் யாரோ எழுதி வைத்திருந்தார்கள். "ஜக்கில் உள்ள தண்ணீரை அந்த பம்ப் செட்டில் ஊற்றி அடித்தால் தண்ணீர் வரும். குடித்து விட்டு மறுபடியும் ஜக்கில் தண்ணீரை நிரப்பி வைத்து விட்டுச் செல்லவும்."
அந்த பம்ப் செட்டோ மிகவும் பழையதாக இருந்தது. அந்த தண்ணீர் ஊற்றினால் அது இயங்குமா, தண்ணீர் வருமா என்பது அவனுக்கு சந்தேகமாக இருந்தது. அது இயங்கா விட்டால் அந்தத் தண்ணீர் வீணாகி விடும். அதற்குப் பதிலாக அந்தத் தண்ணீரைக் குடித்து விட்டால் தாகமும் தணியும், உயிர் பிழைப்பதற்கு உத்திரவாதமும் உள்ளது.
அந்தப் பயணி யோசித்தான். தண்ணீரைக் குடித்து விடுவதே புத்திசாலித்தனம் என்று அறிவு கூறியது. ஒரு வேளை அதில் எழுதி வைத்திருப்பது போல் அந்த பம்ப் இயங்குவதாக இருந்து அது இயங்கத் தேவையான அந்தத் தண்ணீரைக் குடித்து விட்டால் அது மகாபாதகம் என்று இதயம் சொன்னது. இனி தன்னைப் போல தாகத்தோடு வருபவர்களுக்கு அது பயன்படாமல் போக தானே காரணமாகி விடுவோம் என்று மனசாட்சி எச்சரித்தது. அவன் அதற்கு மேல் யோசிக்கவில்லை. ஆனது ஆகட்டும் என்று அந்தப் பம்பில் அந்த தண்ணீரை ஊற்றி விட்டு அதை அடித்து இயக்க ஆரம்பித்தான். தண்ணீர் வர ஆரம்பித்தது. தாகம் தீர, வேண்டிய அளவு தண்ணீர் குடித்து விட்டு அந்த ஜக்கில் நீரை நிரப்பி விட்டுச் செல்கையில் அவன் மனம் நிறைந்திருந்தது.
இந்த நிகழ்ச்சியில் இரண்டு படிப்பினைகள் உள்ளன. ஒன்று நாம் அவசியமான காலத்தில் அனுபவிப்பதை அடுத்தவருக்கும் அதே போல பயன்படும்படி விட்டுப் போக வேண்டும். எந்த நன்மையும் நம்முடன் நின்று விடலாகாது. இந்த கால கட்டத்தில் பெரும்பாலான மனிதர்களிடம் அந்த நல்லெண்ணம் இருப்பதில்லை. நம் வேலை ஆனால் சரி, அடுத்தவர் எக்கேடு கெட்டால் நமக்கென்ன என்ற அலட்சியம் பலரிடமும் மேலோங்கி உள்ளது. "யான் பெற்ற இன்பம் பெறுக இவ்வையகம்" என்ற மனநிலையில் ஒவ்வொருவரும் இருந்தால் இந்த உலகம் இன்பமயமாகி விடுமல்லவா?
அந்தப் பயணிக்கு கடைசியில் ஒரு மனநிறைவு இருந்ததே அது தான் மிகப்பெரிய பரிசு. விருது. நல்லது அல்லாததைச் செய்ய சந்தர்ப்பம் இருந்தும் அதைச் செய்யாமல் நல்லதைச் செய்து முடிக்கையில் தானாக வரும் ஆத்மதிருப்தியை விடப் பெரிய சபாஷ், கைதட்டல், விருது ஏதாவது இருக்கிறதா? இப்படி ஆத்மதிருப்தியைத் தரும் செயல்களை அதிகம் செய்யச் செய்ய மனிதன் தானும் உயர்ந்து, தன்னைச் சார்ந்த சமுதாயத்தையும் உயர்த்துகிறான்.
அடுத்த படிப்பினை நாம் நம் வாழ்க்கையிலும் கொடுத்தால் தான் பெற முடியும். இது பிரபஞ்ச விதி. இன்னும் சொல்லப் போனால் கொடுத்ததை மட்டுமே பெற முடியும். ஆனால் அதை கொடுத்த அளவைக் காட்டிலும் பன்மடங்காகப் பெறுகிறோம். மேலே சொன்ன பயணி ஊற்றிய தண்ணீரை விடப் பலமடங்கு தண்ணீரைப் பெற்று அனுபவித்து, முதலில் இருந்த அளவு நீரை எடுத்தும் வைக்கிறான். அவனைப் போல் நமக்கும் கொடுத்து விட்டால் இருந்ததையும் இழந்து விடுவோமே என்று சந்தேகம் தோன்றலாம். ஆனால் அந்த சந்தேகம் உண்மையை அடிப்படையாகக் கொண்டதல்ல. அந்த சந்தேகத்தோடு தர மறுக்கையில் நமக்கு வருவதையும் அடைத்து வைக்கிறோம்.
எனவே எது உங்களுக்கு அதிகம் வேண்டுமோ அதை நீங்கள் முதலில் தேவைப்படும் மற்றவர்களுக்குக் கொடுத்துப்பாருங்கள். செல்வத்தை மட்டுமல்ல அன்பையும், மகிழ்ச்சியையும் கூட அடுத்தவர்க்குக் கொடுங்கள். கண்டிப்பாக அது பலமடங்கு பெருகி திரும்பவும் உங்களை வந்து சேரக் காண்பீர்கள்.
இன்றைய பொழுது இனிய பொழுதாக அமையட்டும்! வாழ்த்துகள்!!
விலகி நிற்பவன் வெல்லுவதில்லை !
வெல்ல நினைப்பவன் விலகுவதில்லை !
Thursday, April 30, 2009
Deep Foot Mark, which is tough for me to represent
In spite of long battle with help of (Accupuncture) medication that we had since December '2008, my Father passed away (23-04-09) leaving a big foot mark in our hearts. We still consider him to alive with us only. We will live with his memories in hearts and would always pay tribute with our tears.
He being a legend for me, who taught me patience in life. He had left a big foot mark in our hearts, expecting which should (would) help us in going forward. He being a Good Friend of mine, to whom I used to share my day-to-day activities which am gonna miss throughout my life.
His absence will surely be a great gap which cannot be bridged at anytime.
Lessons learnt from him
1. Patience.
2. Politeness.
3. Good at listening to each and everyone around.
4. Quick witty without hurting.
5. Will be organised in all aspects like replacing the things from the place where it is taken.
6. Helped me in enriching my IQ (General Knowledge) by presenting books at times.
7. A good tutor in games.
8. Taught me to know about working on general household utensils/things.
9. Helped to equip myselves in the society.
10. Always kind and good to all which a mamooth habit of him, which am lacking and will try building the same as he was.
11. etc....
There are lot to sort down, but drops are @ foot steps of my eyes which is procrastinating.
But will surely add a post later abt the pains that we had during his hospitalization.
He being a legend for me, who taught me patience in life. He had left a big foot mark in our hearts, expecting which should (would) help us in going forward. He being a Good Friend of mine, to whom I used to share my day-to-day activities which am gonna miss throughout my life.
His absence will surely be a great gap which cannot be bridged at anytime.
Lessons learnt from him
1. Patience.
2. Politeness.
3. Good at listening to each and everyone around.
4. Quick witty without hurting.
5. Will be organised in all aspects like replacing the things from the place where it is taken.
6. Helped me in enriching my IQ (General Knowledge) by presenting books at times.
7. A good tutor in games.
8. Taught me to know about working on general household utensils/things.
9. Helped to equip myselves in the society.
10. Always kind and good to all which a mamooth habit of him, which am lacking and will try building the same as he was.
11. etc....
There are lot to sort down, but drops are @ foot steps of my eyes which is procrastinating.
But will surely add a post later abt the pains that we had during his hospitalization.
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Why Bill Gates retired from Microsoft?
Letter from Banta Singh of Punjab to Mr. Bill Gates of Microsoft
Subject: Problems with my new computer
Dear Mr. Bill Gates,
We have bought a computer for our home and we have found some problems, which I want to bring to your notice.
1. There is a button ’start’ but there is no ’stop’ button.
We request you to check this.
2. One doubt is whether any ‘re-scooter’ is available in system? I find only ‘re-cycle’, but I own a scooter at my home.
3. There is ‘Find’ button but it is not working properly. My wife lost the door key and we tried a lot trace the key with this ‘find’ button, but was unable to trace. Please rectify this problem.
4. My child learnt ‘Microsoft word’ now he wants to learn ‘Microsoft sentence’, so when you will provide that?
5. I bought computer, CPU, mouse and keyboard, but there is only one icon which shows ‘My Computer’: when you will provide the remaining items?
6. It is surprising that windows say ‘MY Pictures’ but there is not even a single photo of mine. So when will you keep my photo in that.
7. There is ‘MICROSOFT OFFICE’ what about ‘MICROSOFT HOME’ since I use the PC at home only.
8. You provided ‘My Recent Documents’. When you will provide ‘My Past Documents’?
9. You provide ‘My Network Places’. For God sake please do not provide ‘My Secret Places’. I do not want to let my wife know where I go after my office hours.
Regards,
Banta
Last but not least :
Sir, how is it that your name is Gates but you are selling WINDOWS?
Subject: Problems with my new computer
Dear Mr. Bill Gates,
We have bought a computer for our home and we have found some problems, which I want to bring to your notice.
1. There is a button ’start’ but there is no ’stop’ button.
We request you to check this.
2. One doubt is whether any ‘re-scooter’ is available in system? I find only ‘re-cycle’, but I own a scooter at my home.
3. There is ‘Find’ button but it is not working properly. My wife lost the door key and we tried a lot trace the key with this ‘find’ button, but was unable to trace. Please rectify this problem.
4. My child learnt ‘Microsoft word’ now he wants to learn ‘Microsoft sentence’, so when you will provide that?
5. I bought computer, CPU, mouse and keyboard, but there is only one icon which shows ‘My Computer’: when you will provide the remaining items?
6. It is surprising that windows say ‘MY Pictures’ but there is not even a single photo of mine. So when will you keep my photo in that.
7. There is ‘MICROSOFT OFFICE’ what about ‘MICROSOFT HOME’ since I use the PC at home only.
8. You provided ‘My Recent Documents’. When you will provide ‘My Past Documents’?
9. You provide ‘My Network Places’. For God sake please do not provide ‘My Secret Places’. I do not want to let my wife know where I go after my office hours.
Regards,
Banta
Last but not least :
Sir, how is it that your name is Gates but you are selling WINDOWS?
PARENTS ARE PRECIOUS!!
This was narrated by an IAF pilot at
a Seminar recently on Human Relations :
Venkatesh Balasubramaniam (who works for IIT) describes how his gesture of booking an air ticket for his father, his maiden
flight, brought forth a rush of emotions and made him (Venkatesh) realize that how much we all take for granted when it comes to our
parents.
My parents left for our native place on Thursday and we went to the airport to see them off. In fact, my father had never
traveled by air before, so I just took this opportunity to make him experience the same. In spite of being asked to book tickets by train, I got them tickets on Jet Airways. The moment I handed over the tickets
to him, he was surprised to see that I had booked them by air. The excitement was very apparent on his face, waiting for the time of
travel. Just like a school boy, he was preparing himself on that day and we all went to the airport, right from using the trolley for his luggage, the baggage check-in and asking for a window seat and waiting
restlessly for the security check-in to happen. He was thoroughly enjoying himself and I, too, was overcome with joy watching him
experience all these things.
As they were about to go in for the security check-in, he walked up to me with tears in his eyes and thanked me. He became very emotional and it was not as if I had done something great but the fact that this meant a great deal to him. When he said thanks, I told him there was no need to thank me. But later, thinking about the entire incident, I looked back at my life. As a child, how many dreams our parents have made come true. Without understanding the financial situation, we ask for cricket bats, dresses, toys, outings, etc. Irrespective of their affordability, they have catered to all our needs. Did we ever think about the sacrifices they had to make to accommodate many of our wishes? Did we ever say thanks for all that they have done for us? Same way, today when it comes to our children, we always think that we should put them in a good school. Regardless of the amount of donation, we will ensure that we will have t give the child the best, theme parks, toys, etc. But we tend to forget that our parents have sacrificed a lot for our sake to see us happy, so it is our responsibility to ensure that their dreams are realized and what they failed to see when they were young. It is our responsibility to ensure that they experience all those and their life is complete.
Many times, when my parents had asked me some questions, I have actually answered back without patience. When my daughter asks me something, I have been very polite in answering. Now I realize how they would have felt at those moments. Let us realize that old age is a second childhood and
just as we take care of our children, the same attention and same care needs to be given to our parents and elders. Rather than my dad saying thank you to me, I woul want to say sorry for making him wait so long for this small dream. I do realize how much he has sacrificed for my sake and I will do my best to give the best possible attention to all their wishes.
Just because they are old does not mean that they will have to give up everything and keep sacrificing for their grandchildren also. They have wishes, too.
Take care of your parents. THEY ARE PRECIOUS.
- KEEP THIS MESSAGE GOING BY SENDING IT TO YOUR FRIENDS
a Seminar recently on Human Relations :
Venkatesh Balasubramaniam (who works for IIT) describes how his gesture of booking an air ticket for his father, his maiden
flight, brought forth a rush of emotions and made him (Venkatesh) realize that how much we all take for granted when it comes to our
parents.
My parents left for our native place on Thursday and we went to the airport to see them off. In fact, my father had never
traveled by air before, so I just took this opportunity to make him experience the same. In spite of being asked to book tickets by train, I got them tickets on Jet Airways. The moment I handed over the tickets
to him, he was surprised to see that I had booked them by air. The excitement was very apparent on his face, waiting for the time of
travel. Just like a school boy, he was preparing himself on that day and we all went to the airport, right from using the trolley for his luggage, the baggage check-in and asking for a window seat and waiting
restlessly for the security check-in to happen. He was thoroughly enjoying himself and I, too, was overcome with joy watching him
experience all these things.
As they were about to go in for the security check-in, he walked up to me with tears in his eyes and thanked me. He became very emotional and it was not as if I had done something great but the fact that this meant a great deal to him. When he said thanks, I told him there was no need to thank me. But later, thinking about the entire incident, I looked back at my life. As a child, how many dreams our parents have made come true. Without understanding the financial situation, we ask for cricket bats, dresses, toys, outings, etc. Irrespective of their affordability, they have catered to all our needs. Did we ever think about the sacrifices they had to make to accommodate many of our wishes? Did we ever say thanks for all that they have done for us? Same way, today when it comes to our children, we always think that we should put them in a good school. Regardless of the amount of donation, we will ensure that we will have t give the child the best, theme parks, toys, etc. But we tend to forget that our parents have sacrificed a lot for our sake to see us happy, so it is our responsibility to ensure that their dreams are realized and what they failed to see when they were young. It is our responsibility to ensure that they experience all those and their life is complete.
Many times, when my parents had asked me some questions, I have actually answered back without patience. When my daughter asks me something, I have been very polite in answering. Now I realize how they would have felt at those moments. Let us realize that old age is a second childhood and
just as we take care of our children, the same attention and same care needs to be given to our parents and elders. Rather than my dad saying thank you to me, I woul want to say sorry for making him wait so long for this small dream. I do realize how much he has sacrificed for my sake and I will do my best to give the best possible attention to all their wishes.
Just because they are old does not mean that they will have to give up everything and keep sacrificing for their grandchildren also. They have wishes, too.
Take care of your parents. THEY ARE PRECIOUS.
- KEEP THIS MESSAGE GOING BY SENDING IT TO YOUR FRIENDS
A Night in an Airport
It was a long week end. So planned to have a trip to a tourist spot near by.
Reached to the spot in midnight, settled & roamed around the city for two days. Had fun, enjoyed the locations.
As I have early flight on next morning, planned to spend the night @ Airport. Reached Airport @ around 9 PM.
Enquired about for place to take rest myself.
Just reached to the place where people use to gather, who are planning to stay and catch their early flights.
I was third in the row to reach the spot.
It is place where we could see different people, culture, habit, etc..
Small naration about people around
A lady with a book : It looks like she is more involved in book (book worm). No. It is not. She was just pretending like reading book. Might be she was using her book as barricade, which would have made her feel comfortable and no one would disturb her.
Sleeping Man : Second person whom I saw, before I stepped to that spot was a man was sleeping in the chairs itself. He just woke up around 5.30 in the morning and rubbed his eyes and started moving out with his luggage.
Drunken Monk : A Monk was sitting there, he was drunk and was murmur something all through the night in half sleep.
These three are the persons who were present before I reached the Resting area.
Here comes some of my observations
Till 11 PM all the surronding doors were open and was accessible by the People who were waiting for their respective early Flights. After the clock struck 11, doors were locked and only limited area was accessible.
Few more people came in. Some were feeling uncomfortable among the crew.
One guy looked like he is missing himself, he used to stare at everyone and murmur himself and hang down his head again.
Another guy, looked like Arrogant fellow (Good Body Condition) but he was quite calm and was involved himself in reading book.
It is turn of myself….. As this kind of stay is new and the place is also new so I was just trying to behave accordingly in such a way that no harm reaches and kept watching others to make a note their activity to present it over here.
Little latter a couple came to the spot, who made the place lively one. They were good and decent looking. As soon as they reached the spot they had their feast (Mouth Kiss) and then started listening music and reading book. They were the center of attraction there.
A Lady with a kid was coming with luggage and tried to find a corner place to leave the luggage and be leisure themselves. Finally she managed to place the luggage and made the chair comfortable in such a way that her kid could sleep. I bow down for the mothers here.
Two other persons, who came together and looked rest less and watch having eye on every one and keep walking in that small space to and fro. They jumped out as soon the door was opened in the morning.
Later I fell asleep in the chair and woke up when the doors were opened. So people started moving out through their respective directions on their own ways. Finally again that young couples were clear for the morning (ready with make-up), had morning break (Kiss); a good one and long one where the everybody were looking at them.
Later I went to the domestic Airport to catch my flight.
This is all about the stay in the Airport for a Night.
Reached to the spot in midnight, settled & roamed around the city for two days. Had fun, enjoyed the locations.
As I have early flight on next morning, planned to spend the night @ Airport. Reached Airport @ around 9 PM.
Enquired about for place to take rest myself.
Just reached to the place where people use to gather, who are planning to stay and catch their early flights.
I was third in the row to reach the spot.
It is place where we could see different people, culture, habit, etc..
Small naration about people around
A lady with a book : It looks like she is more involved in book (book worm). No. It is not. She was just pretending like reading book. Might be she was using her book as barricade, which would have made her feel comfortable and no one would disturb her.
Sleeping Man : Second person whom I saw, before I stepped to that spot was a man was sleeping in the chairs itself. He just woke up around 5.30 in the morning and rubbed his eyes and started moving out with his luggage.
Drunken Monk : A Monk was sitting there, he was drunk and was murmur something all through the night in half sleep.
These three are the persons who were present before I reached the Resting area.
Here comes some of my observations
Till 11 PM all the surronding doors were open and was accessible by the People who were waiting for their respective early Flights. After the clock struck 11, doors were locked and only limited area was accessible.
Few more people came in. Some were feeling uncomfortable among the crew.
One guy looked like he is missing himself, he used to stare at everyone and murmur himself and hang down his head again.
Another guy, looked like Arrogant fellow (Good Body Condition) but he was quite calm and was involved himself in reading book.
It is turn of myself….. As this kind of stay is new and the place is also new so I was just trying to behave accordingly in such a way that no harm reaches and kept watching others to make a note their activity to present it over here.
Little latter a couple came to the spot, who made the place lively one. They were good and decent looking. As soon as they reached the spot they had their feast (Mouth Kiss) and then started listening music and reading book. They were the center of attraction there.
A Lady with a kid was coming with luggage and tried to find a corner place to leave the luggage and be leisure themselves. Finally she managed to place the luggage and made the chair comfortable in such a way that her kid could sleep. I bow down for the mothers here.
Two other persons, who came together and looked rest less and watch having eye on every one and keep walking in that small space to and fro. They jumped out as soon the door was opened in the morning.
Later I fell asleep in the chair and woke up when the doors were opened. So people started moving out through their respective directions on their own ways. Finally again that young couples were clear for the morning (ready with make-up), had morning break (Kiss); a good one and long one where the everybody were looking at them.
Later I went to the domestic Airport to catch my flight.
This is all about the stay in the Airport for a Night.
~~~ A Person who always Loves You ~~~
I was a just-born and she was Twenty-Five ,
Though we were we, we were one.
I would cry out in Latin and she would respond in Greek,
I would learn nothing but she never got tired to teach.
I was surrounded by monsters eager to pull my cheek,
but they would vanish the moment i was wet and weep.
She would come running and hold me in her arms,
as if i had won the contest of the charms.
Now I was able to walk and chew,
hey, i was two.
I and she could now understand each other,
i was her everything and she needed no other.
I would try to walk and fall down,
But knowing she was with me, the fear of getting hurt was now gone.
We still could not converse that effectively,
But she would understand my needs so easily.
I could now roam about free,
because now i have turned three.
I was ready to join a new world,
my academic life was now gonna mould.
She would dress me as best as a prince,
but when i would come back, she would need at least an hour to rinse.
I was now able to talk,
I was a ferry and she was my dock.
I still remember the child, whose shirt I had tore,
Hey buddy, i have turned four.
I now came home a little late,
Nevertheless finding her waiting at the gate.
She would hug me and carry me in her arms,
it felt like flying through the farms.
We now did the homework together,
i would spoil the home and she used to work.
Years passed and now i was fifteen, and with each year i would forget to
lean.
I wouldn’t care for what she said, because now i had become mean.
She would ask me to study for a good future,
but i was busy in a different culture.
Now i had many shes in my life,
i dreamed of having one of them as my wife.
I changed a lot which she did not teach,
She would try to hug me but i was out of reach.
She still waited for me at the gate,
but i would look at her with utmost hate.
She would be awake till late in the night,
because i wasn’t home, i was in a fight.
She had so much to scold, but she never did say,
hoping to find me better the next day.
Time went on and now i am grown,
lost in the world of my own.
I and she, between us have a river,
I have left her for my career.
When i was young, for me, she sacrificed her ambitions,
but i don’t care, i now have my own mission.
I am not with her now, i am in a different city,
she is so old now but i don’t even pity.
She needs me now but i am nowhere to find,
in the race for appraisal, i have become blind.
In a few years from now, i will be two,
there will be in my life someone new.
Then i’ll forget even to bother,
i am her son and she my Mother.
Though we were we, we were one.
I would cry out in Latin and she would respond in Greek,
I would learn nothing but she never got tired to teach.
I was surrounded by monsters eager to pull my cheek,
but they would vanish the moment i was wet and weep.
She would come running and hold me in her arms,
as if i had won the contest of the charms.
Now I was able to walk and chew,
hey, i was two.
I and she could now understand each other,
i was her everything and she needed no other.
I would try to walk and fall down,
But knowing she was with me, the fear of getting hurt was now gone.
We still could not converse that effectively,
But she would understand my needs so easily.
I could now roam about free,
because now i have turned three.
I was ready to join a new world,
my academic life was now gonna mould.
She would dress me as best as a prince,
but when i would come back, she would need at least an hour to rinse.
I was now able to talk,
I was a ferry and she was my dock.
I still remember the child, whose shirt I had tore,
Hey buddy, i have turned four.
I now came home a little late,
Nevertheless finding her waiting at the gate.
She would hug me and carry me in her arms,
it felt like flying through the farms.
We now did the homework together,
i would spoil the home and she used to work.
Years passed and now i was fifteen, and with each year i would forget to
lean.
I wouldn’t care for what she said, because now i had become mean.
She would ask me to study for a good future,
but i was busy in a different culture.
Now i had many shes in my life,
i dreamed of having one of them as my wife.
I changed a lot which she did not teach,
She would try to hug me but i was out of reach.
She still waited for me at the gate,
but i would look at her with utmost hate.
She would be awake till late in the night,
because i wasn’t home, i was in a fight.
She had so much to scold, but she never did say,
hoping to find me better the next day.
Time went on and now i am grown,
lost in the world of my own.
I and she, between us have a river,
I have left her for my career.
When i was young, for me, she sacrificed her ambitions,
but i don’t care, i now have my own mission.
I am not with her now, i am in a different city,
she is so old now but i don’t even pity.
She needs me now but i am nowhere to find,
in the race for appraisal, i have become blind.
In a few years from now, i will be two,
there will be in my life someone new.
Then i’ll forget even to bother,
i am her son and she my Mother.
A Touching Story
A Touching Story
My wife called, ‘How long will you be with that newspaper? Will you come here and make your darling daughter eat her food?’.
I tossed the paper away and rushed to the scene. My only daughter Sindu looked frightened.
Tears were welling up in her eyes. In front of her was a bowl filled to its brim with Curd Rice. Sindu is a nice child, quite intelligent for her age.She has just turned eight. She particularly detested Curd Rice. My mother and my wife are orthodox, and believe firmly in the ‘cooling effects’ of Curd Rice! I cleared my throat, and picked up the bowl. ‘Sindu, darling,why don’t you take a few mouthful of this Curd Rice?Just for Dad’s sake, dear.
Sindu softened a bit, and wiped her tears with the back of her hands. ‘OK, Dad. I will eat - not just a few mouthfuls, but the whole lot of this. But, you should…’ Sindu hesitated.
‘Dad, if I eat this entire curd Rice, will you give me whatever I ask for?’……. ….Oh sure, darling’…. ‘Promise? ‘…….. ………
‘Promise’. I covered the pink soft hand extended by my daughter with mine, and clinched the deal.
‘Ask Mom also to give a similar promise’, my daughter insisted.
My wife put her hand on Sindu’s, muttering ‘Promise’.
Now I became a bit anxious. ‘Sindu dear, you shouldn’t insist on getting a computer or any such expensive items.Dad does not have that kind of money right now. OK?’
’No, Dad. I do not want anything expensive’.Slowly and painfully, she finished eating the whole quantity.
I was silently angry with my wife and my mother for forcing my child eat something that she detested. After the ordeal was through, Sindu came to me with her eyes wide with expectation. All our attention was on her……… ….’Dad, I want to have my head shaved off, this Sunday!’ was her demand.
‘Atrocious!’ shouted my wife, ‘A girl child having her head shaved off? Impossible!’ ‘Never in our family!’ my mother rasped.’She has been watching too much of television. Our culture is getting totally spoiled with these TV programs!’
Sindu darling, why don’t you ask for something else? We will be sad seeing you with a clean-shaven head.’
‘No, Dad. I do not want anything else’, Sindu said with finality.
‘Please, Sindu, why don’t you try to understand our feelings?’ I tried to plead with her.
‘Dad, you saw how difficult it was for me to eat that Curd Rice’. Sindu was in tears. ‘And you promised to grant me whatever I ask for.Now, you are going back on your words. Was it not you who told me the story of King Harishchandra, and its moral that we should honor our promises no matter what?’
It was time for me to call the shots. ‘Our promise must be kept.’
‘Are you out your mind?’ chorused my mother and wife.
‘No. If we go back on our promises, she will never learn to honor her own. Sindu, your wish will be fulfilled.’
With her head clean-shaven, Sindu had a round-face, and her eyes looked big and beautiful.
On Monday morning, I dropped her at her school. It was a sight to watch my hairless Sindu walking towards her classroom. She turned around and waved. I waved back with a smile.
Just then, a boy alighted from a car, and shouted, ‘Sinduja, please wait for me!’
What struck me was the hairless head of that boy. ‘May be, that is the in-stuff’, I thought.
‘Sir, your daughter Sinduja is great indeed!’ Without introducing herself, a lady got out of the car, and continued,’ That boy who is walking along with your daughter is my son Harish. He is suffering from… … leukemia.’ She paused to muffle her sobs. Harish could not attend the school for the whole of the last month. He lost all his hair due to the side effects of the chemotherapy. He refused to come back to school fearing the unintentional but cruel teasing of the schoolmates. ‘Sinduja’ visited him last week, and promised him that she will take care of the teasing issue. But, I never imagined she would sacrifice her lovely hair for the sake of my son!
Sir, you and your wife are blessed to have such a noble soul as your daughter.
I stood transfixed. And then, I wept. ‘My little Angel, you are teaching me how self-less real love is!’
*The happiest people on this planet are not those who live on their own terms but are those who change their terms for the ones whom they love..*
My wife called, ‘How long will you be with that newspaper? Will you come here and make your darling daughter eat her food?’.
I tossed the paper away and rushed to the scene. My only daughter Sindu looked frightened.
Tears were welling up in her eyes. In front of her was a bowl filled to its brim with Curd Rice. Sindu is a nice child, quite intelligent for her age.She has just turned eight. She particularly detested Curd Rice. My mother and my wife are orthodox, and believe firmly in the ‘cooling effects’ of Curd Rice! I cleared my throat, and picked up the bowl. ‘Sindu, darling,why don’t you take a few mouthful of this Curd Rice?Just for Dad’s sake, dear.
Sindu softened a bit, and wiped her tears with the back of her hands. ‘OK, Dad. I will eat - not just a few mouthfuls, but the whole lot of this. But, you should…’ Sindu hesitated.
‘Dad, if I eat this entire curd Rice, will you give me whatever I ask for?’……. ….Oh sure, darling’…. ‘Promise? ‘…….. ………
‘Promise’. I covered the pink soft hand extended by my daughter with mine, and clinched the deal.
‘Ask Mom also to give a similar promise’, my daughter insisted.
My wife put her hand on Sindu’s, muttering ‘Promise’.
Now I became a bit anxious. ‘Sindu dear, you shouldn’t insist on getting a computer or any such expensive items.Dad does not have that kind of money right now. OK?’
’No, Dad. I do not want anything expensive’.Slowly and painfully, she finished eating the whole quantity.
I was silently angry with my wife and my mother for forcing my child eat something that she detested. After the ordeal was through, Sindu came to me with her eyes wide with expectation. All our attention was on her……… ….’Dad, I want to have my head shaved off, this Sunday!’ was her demand.
‘Atrocious!’ shouted my wife, ‘A girl child having her head shaved off? Impossible!’ ‘Never in our family!’ my mother rasped.’She has been watching too much of television. Our culture is getting totally spoiled with these TV programs!’
Sindu darling, why don’t you ask for something else? We will be sad seeing you with a clean-shaven head.’
‘No, Dad. I do not want anything else’, Sindu said with finality.
‘Please, Sindu, why don’t you try to understand our feelings?’ I tried to plead with her.
‘Dad, you saw how difficult it was for me to eat that Curd Rice’. Sindu was in tears. ‘And you promised to grant me whatever I ask for.Now, you are going back on your words. Was it not you who told me the story of King Harishchandra, and its moral that we should honor our promises no matter what?’
It was time for me to call the shots. ‘Our promise must be kept.’
‘Are you out your mind?’ chorused my mother and wife.
‘No. If we go back on our promises, she will never learn to honor her own. Sindu, your wish will be fulfilled.’
With her head clean-shaven, Sindu had a round-face, and her eyes looked big and beautiful.
On Monday morning, I dropped her at her school. It was a sight to watch my hairless Sindu walking towards her classroom. She turned around and waved. I waved back with a smile.
Just then, a boy alighted from a car, and shouted, ‘Sinduja, please wait for me!’
What struck me was the hairless head of that boy. ‘May be, that is the in-stuff’, I thought.
‘Sir, your daughter Sinduja is great indeed!’ Without introducing herself, a lady got out of the car, and continued,’ That boy who is walking along with your daughter is my son Harish. He is suffering from… … leukemia.’ She paused to muffle her sobs. Harish could not attend the school for the whole of the last month. He lost all his hair due to the side effects of the chemotherapy. He refused to come back to school fearing the unintentional but cruel teasing of the schoolmates. ‘Sinduja’ visited him last week, and promised him that she will take care of the teasing issue. But, I never imagined she would sacrifice her lovely hair for the sake of my son!
Sir, you and your wife are blessed to have such a noble soul as your daughter.
I stood transfixed. And then, I wept. ‘My little Angel, you are teaching me how self-less real love is!’
*The happiest people on this planet are not those who live on their own terms but are those who change their terms for the ones whom they love..*
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About me : I think I am changing the world, but I am not. I think I am contributing to the Indian economy, but I guess I am not. I think I love my work, but I do not. I think I hate all people who made me earn my engineering degree, and I do. I think I am living, but and most importantly, I am LOOKING for someone to make me live !! Ok…I won’t be funny anymore. I am a cool guy with a zeal to enjoy life (For all those who know me–> “Just stop laughing!!”)
Relationship status : what?
Birthday : The day my PL is about to fire me.
Age : 10111
1111
111
Here for : web browsing in company hours.
Children : can’t be (hey, don’t get me wrong here!!)
Ethnicity : Programmer.
Languages I speak : Java, C/C++, 010101110101
Religion : I get holidays on all religious festivals, so I love all religions.
Political view : the guy sitting beside me is a pig!!
Humor : weekly.
Fashion: Ask my company HR. Btw, I like jeans, t-shirt and a cross-bag.
Smoking : The second greatest pleasure on the earth.
Drinking : The first is this.
Pets : Yeah, my manager looks like a dog.
Living: Cummon, this is a stupid one. How can this be asked to a software engineer? Believe me, I am living!!
Hometown : My company (Oh God! Please bring my appraiser to this page)
Webpage: http://naukri.com , http://jobsahead.com ? Isn’t it Ultimate???
Passions: searching for the cheapest pub around, cursing my company, looking for other company, remembering my good old college days, worrying about my future.
Sports: quake, CS (Counter Strike), computer chess.
Activities: Are you crazy?
Books: “How to lose weight in 20 days?”, “How to live a happy life?”,
“101 ways to attract a girl”, “Java Unleashed”, “C++ at your footsteps”, Others censored.
Music: Metallica, Pink Floyd, Nirvana, ACDC, and anything depressing.
Tv shows : can’t afford one.
Cuisines : Bread Butter, Maggi, anything available within 200 meteres of my cubicle….
About me : I think I am changing the world, but I am not. I think I am contributing to the Indian economy, but I guess I am not. I think I love my work, but I do not. I think I hate all people who made me earn my engineering degree, and I do. I think I am living, but and most importantly, I am LOOKING for someone to make me live !! Ok…I won’t be funny anymore. I am a cool guy with a zeal to enjoy life (For all those who know me–> “Just stop laughing!!”)
Relationship status : what?
Birthday : The day my PL is about to fire me.
Age : 10111
1111
111
Here for : web browsing in company hours.
Children : can’t be (hey, don’t get me wrong here!!)
Ethnicity : Programmer.
Languages I speak : Java, C/C++, 010101110101
Religion : I get holidays on all religious festivals, so I love all religions.
Political view : the guy sitting beside me is a pig!!
Humor : weekly.
Fashion: Ask my company HR. Btw, I like jeans, t-shirt and a cross-bag.
Smoking : The second greatest pleasure on the earth.
Drinking : The first is this.
Pets : Yeah, my manager looks like a dog.
Living: Cummon, this is a stupid one. How can this be asked to a software engineer? Believe me, I am living!!
Hometown : My company (Oh God! Please bring my appraiser to this page)
Webpage: http://naukri.com , http://jobsahead.com ? Isn’t it Ultimate???
Passions: searching for the cheapest pub around, cursing my company, looking for other company, remembering my good old college days, worrying about my future.
Sports: quake, CS (Counter Strike), computer chess.
Activities: Are you crazy?
Books: “How to lose weight in 20 days?”, “How to live a happy life?”,
“101 ways to attract a girl”, “Java Unleashed”, “C++ at your footsteps”, Others censored.
Music: Metallica, Pink Floyd, Nirvana, ACDC, and anything depressing.
Tv shows : can’t afford one.
Cuisines : Bread Butter, Maggi, anything available within 200 meteres of my cubicle….
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Mystery Behind the Sentence
Try to find out the mystery behind this sentence: “I do not know where family doctors acquired illegibly perplexing handwriting nevertheless, extraordinary pharmaceutical intellectuality counterbalancing indecipherability, transcendentalizes intercommunications incomprehensibleness”.
This is a sentence where the Nth word is N letters long.
e.g. 3rd word is 3 letters long, 8th word is 8 letters long and so on
This is a sentence where the Nth word is N letters long.
e.g. 3rd word is 3 letters long, 8th word is 8 letters long and so on
HOW TO RECRUIT THE RIGHT PERSON FOR THE JOB?
Put about 100 bricks in some Particular order in a closed Room with an Open window.
Then send 2 or 3 candidates in The room and close the door.
Leave them alone and come back After 6 hours and then analyze The situation.
If they are counting the Bricks. Put them in the accounts Department.
If they are recounting them.. Put them in auditing .
If they have messed up the Whole place with the bricks. Put them in engineering.
If they are arranging the Bricks in some strange order. Put them in planning.
If they are throwing the Bricks at each other. Put them in operations .
If they are sleeping. Put them in security.
If they have broken the bricks Into pieces. Put them in information Technology.
If they are sitting idle. Put them in human resources.
If they say they have tried Different combinations, yet Not a brick has Been moved. Put them in sales.
If they have already left for The day. Put them in marketing.
If they are staring out of the Window. Put them on strategic Planning.
And then last but not least. If they are talking to each Other and not a single brick Has been Moved.
Congratulate them and put them in top management
Real Love…. Really not a Human….
Who said only humans know what love is? Yes, animals are more deluded because of their capacity of their physical body, butoccasionally some of them might be able show us the love that we have forgotten on our ‘busy road’. Just like this story. this is real touching…
Hey, wake up! wake up! A dog was knocked down by a car and died on the middle of the road. Later, another dog isseen beside the corpse of the dog, he tried to wake his friend up using his leg.
Let’s move to the safer side of the road…i will move you to the safer side!When his attempts to wake his friend failed, he tried to push his friend to the side of theroad. But the weight of his friend was proven too heavy for him.
Anyone help, tell me what to do. Though the traffic is busy and dangerous, he just will not go away from his friend. Juststand beside his friend howling and crying.
A lot of people saw this incident and feel very touched. How even a dog can show his loyalty and love to his friend.
I’m really sorry… for not adding the Photo.. I was not able to add the Photos of the same into this Blog..
Also the Photo is so touching ….
Hey, wake up! wake up! A dog was knocked down by a car and died on the middle of the road. Later, another dog isseen beside the corpse of the dog, he tried to wake his friend up using his leg.
Let’s move to the safer side of the road…i will move you to the safer side!When his attempts to wake his friend failed, he tried to push his friend to the side of theroad. But the weight of his friend was proven too heavy for him.
Anyone help, tell me what to do. Though the traffic is busy and dangerous, he just will not go away from his friend. Juststand beside his friend howling and crying.
A lot of people saw this incident and feel very touched. How even a dog can show his loyalty and love to his friend.
I’m really sorry… for not adding the Photo.. I was not able to add the Photos of the same into this Blog..
Also the Photo is so touching ….
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EPIP Area, Whitefield,
Bangalore 560 066,Karnataka, INDIA.
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... Story about Software Engineer ...
Once a man went to a Veterinary Doctor in India and said
Doctor I have come on vacation for a month so that I can get myself treated fully within this period.
Doctor: I think you should go to the Doctor opposite to my clinic, see that board.
Man: No, Doctor, I have come to you only
Doctor: But, gentleman I am a Veterinary Doctor. I am an animal specialist. I do not treat human beings.
Man: I know, Doctor very well and that is why I have come to you only…
Doctor: I can not, because you speak like me, think like me, talk like me which means you are a human being and not an animal.
Man: I know I am a human but litsen to my complaints first
Doctor: OK. Tell me.
Man:
I sleep vigilantly like a dog thinking about my work load whole night.
I get up in the morning like a horse
I go to work running like a deer
I work all the day like a donkey
I run around for 11 months like a bull without any holiday.
I wag my tail in front of all my bosses
I play with my children like a monkey if I get time.
I am like a rabbit before my wife
Doctor: are you a software engineer?
Man: Yes
Doctor: Instead of telling this long history you should have told me in the begining itself that you are are a software engineer. Come man, no one can treat you better than me.
Doctor I have come on vacation for a month so that I can get myself treated fully within this period.
Doctor: I think you should go to the Doctor opposite to my clinic, see that board.
Man: No, Doctor, I have come to you only
Doctor: But, gentleman I am a Veterinary Doctor. I am an animal specialist. I do not treat human beings.
Man: I know, Doctor very well and that is why I have come to you only…
Doctor: I can not, because you speak like me, think like me, talk like me which means you are a human being and not an animal.
Man: I know I am a human but litsen to my complaints first
Doctor: OK. Tell me.
Man:
I sleep vigilantly like a dog thinking about my work load whole night.
I get up in the morning like a horse
I go to work running like a deer
I work all the day like a donkey
I run around for 11 months like a bull without any holiday.
I wag my tail in front of all my bosses
I play with my children like a monkey if I get time.
I am like a rabbit before my wife
Doctor: are you a software engineer?
Man: Yes
Doctor: Instead of telling this long history you should have told me in the begining itself that you are are a software engineer. Come man, no one can treat you better than me.
Honourable Man
Must Read for Every Man and of course Woman (to understand man)
If a female is reading this article then just realize the value of a man; and if its a male then feel proud of after reading it!
“One day, while a woodcutter was cutting a branch of a tree above a river, his axe fell into the river. When he cried out, the Lord appeared and asked, “Why are you crying?”
The woodcutter replied that his axe has fallen into water, and he needed the axe to make his living.
The Lord went down into the water and reappeared with a golden axe. “Is this your axe?” the Lord asked.
The woodcutter replied, “No.”
The Lord again went down and came up with a silver Axe. “Is this your axe?” the Lord asked.
Again, the woodcutter replied, “No.”
The Lord went down again and came up with an iron Axe. “Is this your axe?” the Lord asked.
The woodcutter replied, “Yes.”
The Lord was pleased with the man’s honesty and gave him all three axes to keep, and the woodcutter went home happy.
Some time later the woodcutter was walking with his wife along the riverbank, and his wife fell into the river. When he cried out, the Lord again appeared and asked him, “Why are you crying?”
“Oh Lord, my wife has fallen into the water!”
The Lord went down into the water and came up with ANGELINA JOLIE “Is this your wife?” the Lord asked.
“Yes,” cried the woodcutter.
The Lord was furious. “You lied! That is an untruth!”
The woodcutter replied, “Oh, forgive me, my Lord. It is a misunderstanding. You see,
if I had said ‘no’ to ANGELINA JOLIE , You would have come up with CAMERON DIAZ .
Then if I said ‘no’ to her, you would have come up with my wife . Had I then said ‘yes,’ you would have given me all three.
Lord, I am a poor man, and am not able to take care of all three wives, so THAT’S why I said yes to ANGELINA JOLIE .”
The moral of this story is: Whenever a man lies, it is for a good and honorable reason, and for the benefit of others.
That’s our story, and we’re sticking to it! -
“WE ARE HONORABLE Men !!!!!!”
If a female is reading this article then just realize the value of a man; and if its a male then feel proud of after reading it!
“One day, while a woodcutter was cutting a branch of a tree above a river, his axe fell into the river. When he cried out, the Lord appeared and asked, “Why are you crying?”
The woodcutter replied that his axe has fallen into water, and he needed the axe to make his living.
The Lord went down into the water and reappeared with a golden axe. “Is this your axe?” the Lord asked.
The woodcutter replied, “No.”
The Lord again went down and came up with a silver Axe. “Is this your axe?” the Lord asked.
Again, the woodcutter replied, “No.”
The Lord went down again and came up with an iron Axe. “Is this your axe?” the Lord asked.
The woodcutter replied, “Yes.”
The Lord was pleased with the man’s honesty and gave him all three axes to keep, and the woodcutter went home happy.
Some time later the woodcutter was walking with his wife along the riverbank, and his wife fell into the river. When he cried out, the Lord again appeared and asked him, “Why are you crying?”
“Oh Lord, my wife has fallen into the water!”
The Lord went down into the water and came up with ANGELINA JOLIE “Is this your wife?” the Lord asked.
“Yes,” cried the woodcutter.
The Lord was furious. “You lied! That is an untruth!”
The woodcutter replied, “Oh, forgive me, my Lord. It is a misunderstanding. You see,
if I had said ‘no’ to ANGELINA JOLIE , You would have come up with CAMERON DIAZ .
Then if I said ‘no’ to her, you would have come up with my wife . Had I then said ‘yes,’ you would have given me all three.
Lord, I am a poor man, and am not able to take care of all three wives, so THAT’S why I said yes to ANGELINA JOLIE .”
The moral of this story is: Whenever a man lies, it is for a good and honorable reason, and for the benefit of others.
That’s our story, and we’re sticking to it! -
“WE ARE HONORABLE Men !!!!!!”
Today's Professional Management
1.”We will do it” means “You will do it”
2.”You have done a great job” means “More work to be given to you”
3.”We are working on it” means “We have not yet started working on thesame”
4.”Tomorrow first thing in the morning” means “Its not getting done“At least not tomorrow!”
5.”After discussion we will decide-I am very open to views” means “Ihave already decided, I will tell you what to do”
6.”There was a slight miscommunication” means “We had actually lied”
7.”Lets call a meeting and discuss” means “I have no time now, willtalk later”
8.”We can always do it” means “We actually cannot do the same on time”
9.”We are on the right track but there needs to be a slight extensionof the deadline” means “The project is screwed up, we cannot deliveron time.”
10.”We had slight differences of opinion “means “We had actuallyfought”
11.”Make a list of the work that you do and let’s see how I can helpyou” means “Anyway you have to find a way out no help from me”
12.”You should have told me earlier” means “Well even if you told meearlier that would have made hardly any difference!”
13.”We need to find out the real reason” means “Well I will tell youwhere your fault is”
14.”Well Family is important; your leave is always granted. Justensure that the work is not affected,” means, “Well you know…”
15.”We are a team,” means, “I am not the only one to be blamed”
16.”That’s actually a good question” means “I do not know anythingabout it”
17.”All the Best” means “You are in trouble”
2.”You have done a great job” means “More work to be given to you”
3.”We are working on it” means “We have not yet started working on thesame”
4.”Tomorrow first thing in the morning” means “Its not getting done“At least not tomorrow!”
5.”After discussion we will decide-I am very open to views” means “Ihave already decided, I will tell you what to do”
6.”There was a slight miscommunication” means “We had actually lied”
7.”Lets call a meeting and discuss” means “I have no time now, willtalk later”
8.”We can always do it” means “We actually cannot do the same on time”
9.”We are on the right track but there needs to be a slight extensionof the deadline” means “The project is screwed up, we cannot deliveron time.”
10.”We had slight differences of opinion “means “We had actuallyfought”
11.”Make a list of the work that you do and let’s see how I can helpyou” means “Anyway you have to find a way out no help from me”
12.”You should have told me earlier” means “Well even if you told meearlier that would have made hardly any difference!”
13.”We need to find out the real reason” means “Well I will tell youwhere your fault is”
14.”Well Family is important; your leave is always granted. Justensure that the work is not affected,” means, “Well you know…”
15.”We are a team,” means, “I am not the only one to be blamed”
16.”That’s actually a good question” means “I do not know anythingabout it”
17.”All the Best” means “You are in trouble”
HONESTY IS STILL THE BEST POLICY
Once a general manager wanted to test his people who had come from all over India, about their values of life.
He announced that in their seminar folder, there is PVC pouch and in it there is a seed. When they return, they must put it in a good soil in a pot and look after it very well.
He would hold a competition in the next year’s seminar and that the best plants would be awarded suitably.
Everyone did what was told to him. A year passed quickly. And next year in a big hall, there were hundreds of pots and a great variety of plants-a great scene.
Except one pot in which the soil was there and no plant! The owner was standing quietly and seemingly ashamed of himself!
The general manager called him on the stage. He asked him what happened and he told him the truth. He planted the seed which he was given – and did that was to be done- but nothing happened!
The general manager declared him the winner!
Everyone was shocked. It was announced, “Gentlemen! The seeds I gave you were boiled seeds. You planted them and nothing happened! You acted smartly and used some other seeds.
This man was honest to his work and, therefore he did not cheat me or himself!”
He announced that in their seminar folder, there is PVC pouch and in it there is a seed. When they return, they must put it in a good soil in a pot and look after it very well.
He would hold a competition in the next year’s seminar and that the best plants would be awarded suitably.
Everyone did what was told to him. A year passed quickly. And next year in a big hall, there were hundreds of pots and a great variety of plants-a great scene.
Except one pot in which the soil was there and no plant! The owner was standing quietly and seemingly ashamed of himself!
The general manager called him on the stage. He asked him what happened and he told him the truth. He planted the seed which he was given – and did that was to be done- but nothing happened!
The general manager declared him the winner!
Everyone was shocked. It was announced, “Gentlemen! The seeds I gave you were boiled seeds. You planted them and nothing happened! You acted smartly and used some other seeds.
This man was honest to his work and, therefore he did not cheat me or himself!”
Do spend some time to Read IT…. worth Reading!!!
A butcher watching over his shop is really surprisedwhen he sees a dogcoming inside the shop. He shoos him away. But later,the dog is backagain. So, he goes over to the dog and notices it hasa note in its mouth.He takes the note and it reads “Can I have 12 sausagesand a leg of lamb,please”. The dog has money in its mouth, as well. Thebutcher looks insideand, there is a ten dollar note there. So he takes themoney and puts thesausages and lamb in a bag, placing it in the dog’smouth.The butcher is so impressed, and since it’s aboutclosing time, he decidesto shut the shop and follow the dog. So off he goes.The dog is walkingdown the street, when it comes to a level crossing;the dog puts down thebag, jumps up and presses the button. Then it waitspatiently, bag inmouth, for the lights to turn. They do, and it walksacross the road, withthe butcher following him all the way.The dog then comes to a bus stop, and starts lookingat the timetable. Thebutcher is in awe as the dog stops a bus by pullingits left leg up andgets in it. The butcher follows the dog into the bus.Then the dog shows aticket which is tied to its belt to the bus conductor.The butcher isnearly fainting at this sight, so are the otherpassengers in the bus. Thedog then sits near the driver’s seat looking outsidewaiting for the busstop to come. As soon as the stop is in sight, the dogstands and wags itstail to inform the conductor. Then, without waitingfor the bus to stopcompletely, it jumps out of the bus and runs to ahouse very close to thestop. It opens the big Iron Gate and rushes insidetowards the door.As it approaches the wooden door, the dog suddenlychanges its mind andheads towards the garden. It goes to the window, andbeats its head againstit several times, walks back, jumps off, and waits atthe door.The butcher watches as a big guy opens the door, andstarts abusing thedog, kicking him and punching him, and swearing athim.The butcher surprised with this, runs up, and stopsthe guy. “What inheaven’s name are you doing? The dog is a genius. Hecould be on TV, forthe life of me!” to which the Guy responds: “You callthis clever? This isthe second time this week that this stupid dog’sforgotten his key.”*Moral of the story: You may continue to exceed onlooker’s expectations but shall always fall short of the boss’ expectations. It’s dog’s life after all………………
Dog Bites !… Rabies…. Be Carefull …..
Once bitten TAKE NO CHANCES
Pushpa Narayan & Prathima Nandakumar TNN
Bangalore: When Varadaraju, 23, reacted violently when he was offered a drink of water at his Maruthinagar, his family did not realise that he was infected with the rabies virus. Today, lodged in the isolation ward at the Epidemics Diseases Hospital (Isolation Hospital) on Old Madras Road, he has been put on sedatives and is counting his days.Nearly 20 days ago, Varadaraju was bitten by a stray dog near his house. He didn’t know that the small cut on his lower lip could prove fatal. The virus silently spread and affected his central nervous system (CNS).He showed symptoms such as a sore throat, fever, headache, loss of appetite in the early stages. On Tuesday, his family members discovered that he was excited, and sensitive to bright light and touch. He complained of thirst, but turned aggressive when offered with water.Anxious relatives rushed him to the hospital at 11 am on Wednesday. When doctors learnt that the very sight of water caused painful spasms, they knew this was a classical sign of rabies — hydrophobia.His brother told The Times of India, “I read about the death of a six-year-old boy in this hospital in the papers this morning. But I never thought my brother will have to meet the same fate.’’Varadaraju is not aware of his condition yet. In his dimly lit room, he said: “I have difficulty in breathing and swallowing. I don’t want water. I don’t know what happened. Maybe this is because of the dog bite. They give me medicines that make me sleep.’’Health director Dr M B Rudrappa says the number of dog bite deaths have increased. “The problem is that many are either not aware that rabies is fatal. They ignore it either because they think vaccination against rabies can be painful or it’s expensive.’’Hospital medical records show that at least six people have succumbed to the virus in the past four months. In 2006, there were 39 deaths; in 2005, there were 27 deaths; and, in 2004, there were 21 deaths.“We have people walking in with dog bites almost every day. We counsel them and even force them to take the vaccine. It is available free of cost for those living below the poverty line,’’ says a duty doctor. Unlike the earlier vaccine — Nerve Tissue Vaccine — the recent vaccines are more patient-friendly.It can be taken in five doses (first, third, seventh, fourteenth and twenty-eighth day) and even intra-dermally, says Dr B J Mahendra, professor and head of community medicine at Mandya Institute of Medical Sciences. “Sadly, both children and adults skip vaccination. There were several child rabies deaths as well. Some were even pregnant women’’ he said.
… Posting for the Post of Office Boy…
A jobless man applied for the position of “office boy” at Microsoft. The HR manager interviewed him then watched him cleaning the floor as a test. “You are employed.” He said.” Give me your e-mail address and I’ll send you the application to fill in, as well as date when you may start.” The man replied “But I don’t have a computer, neither an email.” I’m sorry”, said the HR manager, “If you don’t have an email, that means you do not exist. And who doesn’t exist, cannot have the job.” The man left with no hope at all. He didn’t know what to do, with only $10 in his pocket. He then decided to go to the supermarket and buy a 10Kg tomato crate.
He then sold the tomatoes in a door to door round. In less than two hours, he succeeded to double his capital. He repeated the Operation three times, and returned home with $60. The man realized that he can survive by this Way, and started to go everyday earlier, and return late Thus, his money doubled or tripled every day. Shortly, he bought a cart, then a truck, then he had his own fleet of delivery vehicles.
5 years later, the man is one of the biggest food retailers in the US. He started to plan his family’s future, and decided to have a life insurance.
He called an insurance broker, and chose a protection plan. When the conversation was concluded, the broker asked him his email. The man replied, “I don’t have an email”. The broker answered curiously, “You don’t have an email, and yet have succeeded to build an empire. Can you imagine what you could have been if you had an email?!!”
The man thought for a while and replied, “Yes, I’d be an office boy at Microsoft!”
Moral of the story:
M1 - Internet is not the solution to your life.
M2 - If you don’t have internet, and work hard, you can be a millionaire.
M3 - If you received this message by email, you are closer to being an office boy.
Fun @ Friends Marriage
Enhancing Relationship
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, “Public Utilities Board.” There was silence. She repeated, “PUB.” There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady’s voice, “Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband’s pocket but I do not know whose number it is.”
Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just “hello” instead of “PUB”.
NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, “Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?”The father-in-law answered in a smile, “Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you.”
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.
CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested “I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one.” The SDU officer said, “Your requirements, please.” “Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don’t go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest.” The officer listened carefully and replied, “I understand you need television.”
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up a nd discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that “It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person’s character.”
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..
RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that “A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation.” Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.
A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, “Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school.” On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, “Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker.” She answered,”You should appreciate that you married me. Other wise, he will be the millionaire and not you.”
Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It’s like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
PERSONAL PERCEPTION
Different people have different perception. One man’s meat could be another man’s poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, “Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey? “Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, “The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?” Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, “How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.”The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, “Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you.” Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.
It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a nar row bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.
Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..
BE PATIENT
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy’s hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.
Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy’s hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, “Daddy, I’m sorry about your truck.” Then he asked, “but when are my fingers going to grow back?” The father went home & committed suicide.
Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can’t. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, “Public Utilities Board.” There was silence. She repeated, “PUB.” There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady’s voice, “Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband’s pocket but I do not know whose number it is.”
Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just “hello” instead of “PUB”.
NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, “Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?”The father-in-law answered in a smile, “Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you.”
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.
CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested “I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one.” The SDU officer said, “Your requirements, please.” “Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don’t go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest.” The officer listened carefully and replied, “I understand you need television.”
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up a nd discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that “It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person’s character.”
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..
RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that “A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation.” Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.
A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, “Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school.” On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, “Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker.” She answered,”You should appreciate that you married me. Other wise, he will be the millionaire and not you.”
Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It’s like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
PERSONAL PERCEPTION
Different people have different perception. One man’s meat could be another man’s poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, “Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey? “Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, “The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?” Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, “How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.”The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, “Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you.” Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.
It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a nar row bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.
Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..
BE PATIENT
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy’s hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.
Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy’s hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, “Daddy, I’m sorry about your truck.” Then he asked, “but when are my fingers going to grow back?” The father went home & committed suicide.
Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can’t. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.
Worth Reading and Understanding
Enhancing Relationship
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, “Public Utilities Board.” There was silence. She repeated, “PUB.” There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady’s voice, “Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband’s pocket but I do not know whose number it is.”
Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just “hello” instead of “PUB”.
NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, “Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?”The father-in-law answered in a smile, “Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you.”
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.
CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested “I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one.” The SDU officer said, “Your requirements, please.” “Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don’t go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest.” The officer listened carefully and replied, “I understand you need television.”
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up a nd discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that “It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person’s character.”
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..
RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that “A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation.” Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.
A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, “Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school.” On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, “Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker.” She answered,”You should appreciate that you married me. Other wise, he will be the millionaire and not you.”
Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It’s like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
PERSONAL PERCEPTION
Different people have different perception. One man’s meat could be another man’s poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, “Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey? “Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, “The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?” Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, “How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.”The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, “Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you.” Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.
It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a nar row bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.
Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..
BE PATIENT
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy’s hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.
Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy’s hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, “Daddy, I’m sorry about your truck.” Then he asked, “but when are my fingers going to grow back?” The father went home & committed suicide.
Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can’t. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, “Public Utilities Board.” There was silence. She repeated, “PUB.” There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady’s voice, “Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband’s pocket but I do not know whose number it is.”
Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just “hello” instead of “PUB”.
NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, “Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?”The father-in-law answered in a smile, “Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you.”
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.
CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested “I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one.” The SDU officer said, “Your requirements, please.” “Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don’t go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest.” The officer listened carefully and replied, “I understand you need television.”
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up a nd discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that “It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person’s character.”
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..
RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that “A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation.” Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.
A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, “Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school.” On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, “Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker.” She answered,”You should appreciate that you married me. Other wise, he will be the millionaire and not you.”
Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It’s like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
PERSONAL PERCEPTION
Different people have different perception. One man’s meat could be another man’s poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, “Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey? “Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, “The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?” Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, “How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.”The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, “Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you.” Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.
It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a nar row bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.
Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..
BE PATIENT
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy’s hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.
Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy’s hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, “Daddy, I’m sorry about your truck.” Then he asked, “but when are my fingers going to grow back?” The father went home & committed suicide.
Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can’t. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.
Auto Rickshaw
Vehicle with three wheel that roots up the city life, and also topples down some life in day to day life.
I am here now to narrate some characteristics of the persons who drive autorickshaw’s. ( I am not talking about entire crew ).
Having seperate track for autorickshaw given by traffic police, which is never followed by them. They hang in bus stops, rush between the bus the passenger who is about to board to the bus, or he will strand the traffic. When some one stares at him or scoulds for his mis behaviour he starts with abusing words (@ times they even hit the people badly for that).
They never signal ( left turn / right turn), which some time causes panic situtation to the person who follows behind his vehicle.
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Another Scenario
People from my office travel in Auto’s for a certain distance which is less than the minimal distance charge tariff that Govt had fixed. But here they used to board 4 or 5 People in the back seat, and 3 or 4 in Front ( leaving Auto Driver). Normal capacity or person allowed in auto is 3 + 1 (Driver).
These Auto’s charge the employee’s Rs.5/- per head. Where as he earns a Sum of Rs.50/- in To and Fro trip.
The Real cause : People wait in the Gate for boarding in to Auto’s. Those Auto drivers force people to take Auto and suppose they keep waiting for the Auto to be over filled up.
If they are not able to convince passengers, they simply criticise and let them down there itself and leave them stranded there. This is usual scenario.
Once when a passenger asked why you had asked us to board and asking us to come down again, the auto person started blasting the guy with abusing words and was about to hit the person. Then other (Auto) persons convinced that person.
But even people are using that sort persons vehicle still now. It is hardly less than 1.5 Km, which can easily covered by walk under tree shade.
Whom to Blame ?
I am here now to narrate some characteristics of the persons who drive autorickshaw’s. ( I am not talking about entire crew ).
Having seperate track for autorickshaw given by traffic police, which is never followed by them. They hang in bus stops, rush between the bus the passenger who is about to board to the bus, or he will strand the traffic. When some one stares at him or scoulds for his mis behaviour he starts with abusing words (@ times they even hit the people badly for that).
They never signal ( left turn / right turn), which some time causes panic situtation to the person who follows behind his vehicle.
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Another Scenario
People from my office travel in Auto’s for a certain distance which is less than the minimal distance charge tariff that Govt had fixed. But here they used to board 4 or 5 People in the back seat, and 3 or 4 in Front ( leaving Auto Driver). Normal capacity or person allowed in auto is 3 + 1 (Driver).
These Auto’s charge the employee’s Rs.5/- per head. Where as he earns a Sum of Rs.50/- in To and Fro trip.
The Real cause : People wait in the Gate for boarding in to Auto’s. Those Auto drivers force people to take Auto and suppose they keep waiting for the Auto to be over filled up.
If they are not able to convince passengers, they simply criticise and let them down there itself and leave them stranded there. This is usual scenario.
Once when a passenger asked why you had asked us to board and asking us to come down again, the auto person started blasting the guy with abusing words and was about to hit the person. Then other (Auto) persons convinced that person.
But even people are using that sort persons vehicle still now. It is hardly less than 1.5 Km, which can easily covered by walk under tree shade.
Whom to Blame ?
Relational Statements
All good things come to those who wait. BUT Time and tide wait for no man.
The pen is mightier than the sword. BUTActions speak louder than words.
Wise men think alike. BUT Fools seldom differ.
The best things in life are free .BUT There’s no such thing as a free.
Slow and steady wins the race . BUT Time waits for no man .
Look before you leap . BUT Strike while the iron is hot .
Do it well, or not at all. BUTHalf a loaf is better than none.
Birds of a feather flock together.BUT Opposites attract.
Don’t cross your bridges before you come to them.BUT Forewarned is forearmed.
Doubt is the beginning of wisdom. BUT Faith will move mountains.
Great starts make great finishes. BUT It ain’t over ’till it’s over.
Practice makes perfect. BUTAll work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.
Silence is golden. BUT The squeaky wheel gets the grease.
You’re never too old to learn. BUT You can’t teach an old dog new tricks.
What’s good for the goose is good for the gander. BUT One man’s meat is another man’s poison.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. BUT Out of sight, out of mind.
Too many cooks spoil the broth. BUT Many hands make light work.
Hold fast to the words of your ancestors. BUTWise men make proverbs and fools repeat them.
The pen is mightier than the sword. BUTActions speak louder than words.
Wise men think alike. BUT Fools seldom differ.
The best things in life are free .BUT There’s no such thing as a free.
Slow and steady wins the race . BUT Time waits for no man .
Look before you leap . BUT Strike while the iron is hot .
Do it well, or not at all. BUTHalf a loaf is better than none.
Birds of a feather flock together.BUT Opposites attract.
Don’t cross your bridges before you come to them.BUT Forewarned is forearmed.
Doubt is the beginning of wisdom. BUT Faith will move mountains.
Great starts make great finishes. BUT It ain’t over ’till it’s over.
Practice makes perfect. BUTAll work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.
Silence is golden. BUT The squeaky wheel gets the grease.
You’re never too old to learn. BUT You can’t teach an old dog new tricks.
What’s good for the goose is good for the gander. BUT One man’s meat is another man’s poison.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. BUT Out of sight, out of mind.
Too many cooks spoil the broth. BUT Many hands make light work.
Hold fast to the words of your ancestors. BUTWise men make proverbs and fools repeat them.
Poem for the Morning.....
Some days are cloudy and grey,
And it seems as if the rain is
Chasing all your dreams away.
While other days are bright and sunny,
Making you feel as though the feats
You can accomplish are many.
On this particular day, I have but
One wishes coming your way…
I hope you have a wonderfully nice day!
And it seems as if the rain is
Chasing all your dreams away.
While other days are bright and sunny,
Making you feel as though the feats
You can accomplish are many.
On this particular day, I have but
One wishes coming your way…
I hope you have a wonderfully nice day!
Whom to Blame ???
Today when I was travelling in the Bus from my place of stay to office. A Co-Passenger (regular passenger in the bus), he got into the bus from the regular spot. But before he got into the bus there were Investigation Team (Checkers) where checking out the tickets/passes of the passengers in the bus. The Co-Passenger came and sat near to me (we dont know one another). Checkers came to him and asked to show the ticket. He told that he got into the stop just now and yet to take ticket. But that public servants denied telling that they didnt allow anybody to get into the bus after they got into the bus in that stop. But as I had seen him regularly getting into the bus in that particular stop, I said to the Checkers that, he got into the bus stop only after you people, and also assured him that I know him for a quite long time as a co-passenger. Like me another passenger who is also travelling in the same bus for quite long term told the checkers, but they were adamant in what they were telling…
So the co-passenger was forced to pay a Minimal fine.
(It happens only in India).
It would be worst start for the day for the guy (co-passenger) who was true, the conductor knowing this regular passenger could have helped him out as he also knew him, but he failed to do so. As he has also been warned for not issuing ticket for him.
Whom to Blame ?!..
So the co-passenger was forced to pay a Minimal fine.
(It happens only in India).
It would be worst start for the day for the guy (co-passenger) who was true, the conductor knowing this regular passenger could have helped him out as he also knew him, but he failed to do so. As he has also been warned for not issuing ticket for him.
Whom to Blame ?!..
My Interest
I am Brownish Black in Complexion…. (which most wouldnt like)
My Hobbies & Interest @ Intervals.
Upto Age 15 : Stamp Collection, Stone Collection, Pen Collection.From 15 and above : Making of Friends, Joining in Forums (Discussions), Melodious Music, Travelling.
The Person I Like to meet and spend some time with them is Dr. A P J. Abdul Kalam (President of India).
My Mother/Father are my First Friend, to whom i used to share all my thoughts and feelings that happens in my day to day life. I admire my Father for his Patience and Kind Hearted, my Mother for her kindness and analysing things correctly.
I had learnt and learning from them that will be helpful for me in Future…….
Yet to go for long Journey…
My Hobbies & Interest @ Intervals.
Upto Age 15 : Stamp Collection, Stone Collection, Pen Collection.From 15 and above : Making of Friends, Joining in Forums (Discussions), Melodious Music, Travelling.
The Person I Like to meet and spend some time with them is Dr. A P J. Abdul Kalam (President of India).
My Mother/Father are my First Friend, to whom i used to share all my thoughts and feelings that happens in my day to day life. I admire my Father for his Patience and Kind Hearted, my Mother for her kindness and analysing things correctly.
I had learnt and learning from them that will be helpful for me in Future…….
Yet to go for long Journey…
My Introduction
I was named as ‘Kamesh’ after three days of my First breath on 15-05-1981 by Mr. & Mrs. Mohanadoss in a Hospital named ‘Holy Redemeer Hospital’ in a town called ‘Theni’.
My Fathers Name is Mohanadoss (Selva) and My Mothers Name is Gnaneshwari (Kamali).
As I dont want to narrate all the incidents happened in my Child hood; which would lead to pages, so I would like to give a crisp note for it.
I did my Schooling till 10th Std in a school named ‘ Saravana Matriculation School’, Rasingapuram.Later I did my Higher Secondary studies from ‘Thambithotam Hr. Sec. School’, Gandhigram, during this two years of time I stayed in hostel and continued my studies, I missed my parents a much out through these year.
After my Schooling, I did my Bachelors degree in Computer Science from the College thats near to my Village. I did my Bachelor degree as a Regular course from ‘Cardamom Planters Association College’ which is affiliated to ‘Madurai Kamaraj University’. During this three years i was with my parents only.
Having interest in higher studies, i did my Master degree in Information Technology from ‘Subbalakshmi Lakshmipathy College of Science’ which is also affiliated to ‘Madurai Kamaraj University’. I did this two years course staying away from my home.
Let me…. Stop here for a while....
My Fathers Name is Mohanadoss (Selva) and My Mothers Name is Gnaneshwari (Kamali).
As I dont want to narrate all the incidents happened in my Child hood; which would lead to pages, so I would like to give a crisp note for it.
I did my Schooling till 10th Std in a school named ‘ Saravana Matriculation School’, Rasingapuram.Later I did my Higher Secondary studies from ‘Thambithotam Hr. Sec. School’, Gandhigram, during this two years of time I stayed in hostel and continued my studies, I missed my parents a much out through these year.
After my Schooling, I did my Bachelors degree in Computer Science from the College thats near to my Village. I did my Bachelor degree as a Regular course from ‘Cardamom Planters Association College’ which is affiliated to ‘Madurai Kamaraj University’. During this three years i was with my parents only.
Having interest in higher studies, i did my Master degree in Information Technology from ‘Subbalakshmi Lakshmipathy College of Science’ which is also affiliated to ‘Madurai Kamaraj University’. I did this two years course staying away from my home.
Let me…. Stop here for a while....
Thursday, February 19, 2009
A Date with a Woman
Read on.....
Very touching.................
DATE WITH A WOMAN
After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said I love you but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.
The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.
That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.
'What's wrong, are you well,' she asked? My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.
'I thought that it would be pleasant to be with you,' I responded. 'Just the two of us.'
She thought about it for a moment, and then said, 'I would like that very much.'
That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous.
When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary.
She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's.
'I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed, 'she said, as she got into the car. 'They can't wait to hear about our meeting'. We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady.
After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips.
'It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,' she said.
'Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor,' I responded.
During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation – nothing extraordinary, but catching up on recent events of each other's life. We talked so much that we missed the movie.
As we arrived at her house later, she said, 'I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.' I agreed.
'How was your dinner date?' asked my wife when I got home. 'Very nice.
Much more so than I could have imagined,' I answered.
A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn't have time to do anything for her.
Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined.
An attached note said: 'I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me.
I love you, son.'At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: 'I LOVE YOU!' and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life is more important than God and your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till 'some other time.'
Pass this along to everyone with an aging parent, to a child, to an adult, to anyone with a parent and most importantly, to someone you truly love.
Very touching.................
DATE WITH A WOMAN
After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said I love you but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.
The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.
That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.
'What's wrong, are you well,' she asked? My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.
'I thought that it would be pleasant to be with you,' I responded. 'Just the two of us.'
She thought about it for a moment, and then said, 'I would like that very much.'
That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous.
When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary.
She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's.
'I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed, 'she said, as she got into the car. 'They can't wait to hear about our meeting'. We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady.
After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips.
'It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,' she said.
'Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor,' I responded.
During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation – nothing extraordinary, but catching up on recent events of each other's life. We talked so much that we missed the movie.
As we arrived at her house later, she said, 'I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.' I agreed.
'How was your dinner date?' asked my wife when I got home. 'Very nice.
Much more so than I could have imagined,' I answered.
A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn't have time to do anything for her.
Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined.
An attached note said: 'I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me.
I love you, son.'At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: 'I LOVE YOU!' and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life is more important than God and your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till 'some other time.'
Pass this along to everyone with an aging parent, to a child, to an adult, to anyone with a parent and most importantly, to someone you truly love.
Friday, January 9, 2009
Kidney Stone - A Caution
Its a fact that most General (Practioner) Doctor is not clear or aware what could happen after a Kidney Stone attack.
Having a worst experience on this problem, I would like to alight some points regarding this. The situtation has happened to my father and would like to share the same with you all .
He had some Kidney Stone problem during 2005-2006. He got stuck with Stone issue twice in that span. Later it was diagnosed by a General Physician.
Steps Taken by the Physician
1. Trips (Glucose).
2. Anti Biotic Injection.
3. Pain Killer Tablet.
4. Some other tablets after the stone got released.
So after a day or two he is normal.
This is all that happened twice.
Then he was normal till mid of 2007. Later he got little issue of BP. Tablets were prescribed and it was followed as mentioned by the physician. During the course he was doing better. At times there was some spikes in pressure which taken care periodically.
During initial 2008, he had backache which made him uncomfortable to do any work. Feeling that having a scan of his entire back could help, which the Radiologist said that possible chances of problem in Kidney. This drove us giving a emergency drive to a Kidney Research Institute, where it was reported as (both) the Kidney is not functioning in normal condition.
With suggestion/inputs from friends, we took him to Vellore CMC Hospital where the Neurologist/Nephralogist did a thorough scan of his body and reported that he is stuck with a chronical kidney infection, which has caused Kidney Shrunking, BP which was identified as a Normal Pressure by the earlier physician who did check-up in 2007.
Doctor from CMC informed that the Pressure has settled inside the Kidney which start pulling the energy of Lungs and started causing trouble to its functioning.
Doctor also added that the physician who had taken treatment for the Kidney Stone should have advised to take Blood Test, Urine Test and Stool Test after a week or two after the Stone release. As the Blood Test which was not performed in right time caused this havoc problem. This resulted causing blood impurement, and increase in Blood Urea & Creatine which is a deadly one after a certain limit.
Doctor prescribed medicines and suggested some diet control which is good for his health. Also he informed that people who are generally affected by Chronical Disease should not be affected either by Fever or Dysentry which would result in energy lost and forcing more work to Lung, Liver, Kidney which would result in serious mishap internally in the body.
Currently he is under treatment, where the issue is little bit in tact.
General Note : The patient do not have any habit of Smoking, Drinking or other deadly habits.
So there is no limitation in getting affected/abducted by this disease for anyone.
Pains that we (the patient) had is not explanatory :(. So please be caution and do have a periodic health checkups.
Some points as conclusion
Please do make a follow up of Blood Test, Urine & Stool Test after the Kidney Stone infection.
Kind of Test that needs to be carried out.
Check points in Blood : Pottasium, Creatine, Sodium, Blood Urea, Zinc (Major ones) & all other normal test.
Check points in Urine : Blood mixture if any (and its ratio), Sodium, Pottasium, Urea
In Generall, please consume normal amount of water as per your body weight (BMI) and have food in time regularly.
Please let me know your suggestion or queries if any.
Having a worst experience on this problem, I would like to alight some points regarding this. The situtation has happened to my father and would like to share the same with you all .
He had some Kidney Stone problem during 2005-2006. He got stuck with Stone issue twice in that span. Later it was diagnosed by a General Physician.
Steps Taken by the Physician
1. Trips (Glucose).
2. Anti Biotic Injection.
3. Pain Killer Tablet.
4. Some other tablets after the stone got released.
So after a day or two he is normal.
This is all that happened twice.
Then he was normal till mid of 2007. Later he got little issue of BP. Tablets were prescribed and it was followed as mentioned by the physician. During the course he was doing better. At times there was some spikes in pressure which taken care periodically.
During initial 2008, he had backache which made him uncomfortable to do any work. Feeling that having a scan of his entire back could help, which the Radiologist said that possible chances of problem in Kidney. This drove us giving a emergency drive to a Kidney Research Institute, where it was reported as (both) the Kidney is not functioning in normal condition.
With suggestion/inputs from friends, we took him to Vellore CMC Hospital where the Neurologist/Nephralogist did a thorough scan of his body and reported that he is stuck with a chronical kidney infection, which has caused Kidney Shrunking, BP which was identified as a Normal Pressure by the earlier physician who did check-up in 2007.
Doctor from CMC informed that the Pressure has settled inside the Kidney which start pulling the energy of Lungs and started causing trouble to its functioning.
Doctor also added that the physician who had taken treatment for the Kidney Stone should have advised to take Blood Test, Urine Test and Stool Test after a week or two after the Stone release. As the Blood Test which was not performed in right time caused this havoc problem. This resulted causing blood impurement, and increase in Blood Urea & Creatine which is a deadly one after a certain limit.
Doctor prescribed medicines and suggested some diet control which is good for his health. Also he informed that people who are generally affected by Chronical Disease should not be affected either by Fever or Dysentry which would result in energy lost and forcing more work to Lung, Liver, Kidney which would result in serious mishap internally in the body.
Currently he is under treatment, where the issue is little bit in tact.
General Note : The patient do not have any habit of Smoking, Drinking or other deadly habits.
So there is no limitation in getting affected/abducted by this disease for anyone.
Pains that we (the patient) had is not explanatory :(. So please be caution and do have a periodic health checkups.
Some points as conclusion
Please do make a follow up of Blood Test, Urine & Stool Test after the Kidney Stone infection.
Kind of Test that needs to be carried out.
Check points in Blood : Pottasium, Creatine, Sodium, Blood Urea, Zinc (Major ones) & all other normal test.
Check points in Urine : Blood mixture if any (and its ratio), Sodium, Pottasium, Urea
In Generall, please consume normal amount of water as per your body weight (BMI) and have food in time regularly.
Please let me know your suggestion or queries if any.
Wednesday, January 7, 2009
Creation of CON folder in Windows
Try creating a Folder Named “CON” in Windows Machine, which results in vain.
My Understanding
Windows would have used CON as Universal Object (which might be used as engine to connect with OS) which cannot be duplicated or replicated at any places.
Try to break the mystery in it or try creating CON folder in Windows and spread it across.
~ Please add your comments if any ~
My Understanding
Windows would have used CON as Universal Object (which might be used as engine to connect with OS) which cannot be duplicated or replicated at any places.
Try to break the mystery in it or try creating CON folder in Windows and spread it across.
~ Please add your comments if any ~
Monday, January 5, 2009
How to close Outlook from Home
Problem Situation
Friday night in the comforts of your home. Looking ahead for a happy weekend.
You suddenly remember that you are going to receive an important mail from onsite, on Friday EOD their time i.e. Saturday morning our time, for which you have to reply. The contents of the mail is not the problem.
You know you could reply in your comforts of your home using webaccess.
The Big Bang. You forgot to close Outlook and the mail will sink into your PST.
Solution 1:
Go to office first thing on Saturday morning just to close outlook or reply to the mail if it has already arrived.
Solution 2:
Send an email on Friday night to your own email ID, which is preconfigured to close Outlook in your machine.
Cool…right?… So how do you do it?
Open NotepadType “tskill outlook” //without the quotesSave it as closeoutlook.bat, in a secure location
Open OutlookGo to Tool-> Rules and AlertsChoose “New Rule”In the “Rules Wizard” popup choose “Start from a blank rule”.
Leave the default option of “Check message when they arrive”.
Click Next.
Tick “with specific words in the subject or body”.
Click on “specific words” at the window and type a text like “kindlyclosemyoutlook”.
Click Next.In the new options pane, tick “start application”.
Choose the “closeoutlook.bat” file by browsing.
By default it will show only *.exe files I the browse panel.
Choose all files to view your file.
Click Next and then Finish.
Voila! You are done.
Test it by sending a mail to yourself with the text "kindlyclosemyoutlook" in your mail subject or body.
Friday night in the comforts of your home. Looking ahead for a happy weekend.
You suddenly remember that you are going to receive an important mail from onsite, on Friday EOD their time i.e. Saturday morning our time, for which you have to reply. The contents of the mail is not the problem.
You know you could reply in your comforts of your home using webaccess.
The Big Bang. You forgot to close Outlook and the mail will sink into your PST.
Solution 1:
Go to office first thing on Saturday morning just to close outlook or reply to the mail if it has already arrived.
Solution 2:
Send an email on Friday night to your own email ID, which is preconfigured to close Outlook in your machine.
Cool…right?… So how do you do it?
Open NotepadType “tskill outlook” //without the quotesSave it as closeoutlook.bat, in a secure location
Open OutlookGo to Tool-> Rules and AlertsChoose “New Rule”In the “Rules Wizard” popup choose “Start from a blank rule”.
Leave the default option of “Check message when they arrive”.
Click Next.
Tick “with specific words in the subject or body”.
Click on “specific words” at the window and type a text like “kindlyclosemyoutlook”.
Click Next.In the new options pane, tick “start application”.
Choose the “closeoutlook.bat” file by browsing.
By default it will show only *.exe files I the browse panel.
Choose all files to view your file.
Click Next and then Finish.
Voila! You are done.
Test it by sending a mail to yourself with the text "kindlyclosemyoutlook" in your mail subject or body.
Forgot to mention subject in the Mail
Forgot to mention subject in the Mail
while writing an official mail and feel bad later???????
Yes…. It’s a concern for all…. A mail without a subject brings a bad impression on us.
To avoid this, Just follow the simple steps mentioned below and see the result.
Here below are the steps: -
1. Open your outlook
2. Press Alt+F11. This opens the Visual Basic editor and then Press Ctrl+R which in turn opens Project-Project 1 (left side)
3. On the Left Pane, one can see "Microsoft Outlook Objects" or "Project1", expand this. Now one can see the "ThisOutLookSession".
4. Double click on "ThisOutLookSession". It will open up a code pane.
5. Copy and Paste the following code in the right pane. (Code Pane) and save it
Private Sub Application_ItemSend(ByVal Item As Object, Cancel As Boolean)
Dim strSubject As String
strSubject = Item.Subject
If Len(Trim(strSubject)) = 0 Then
Prompt$ = "Subject is Empty. Are you sure you want to send the Mail?"
If MsgBox(Prompt$, vbYesNo + vbQuestion + vbMsgBoxSetForeground, "Check for Subject") = vbNo Then
Cancel = True
End If
End If
End Sub
6. Now whenever u try to send a mail without subject, which will raise a pop-up to remind you
while writing an official mail and feel bad later???????
Yes…. It’s a concern for all…. A mail without a subject brings a bad impression on us.
To avoid this, Just follow the simple steps mentioned below and see the result.
Here below are the steps: -
1. Open your outlook
2. Press Alt+F11. This opens the Visual Basic editor and then Press Ctrl+R which in turn opens Project-Project 1 (left side)
3. On the Left Pane, one can see "Microsoft Outlook Objects" or "Project1", expand this. Now one can see the "ThisOutLookSession".
4. Double click on "ThisOutLookSession". It will open up a code pane.
5. Copy and Paste the following code in the right pane. (Code Pane) and save it
Private Sub Application_ItemSend(ByVal Item As Object, Cancel As Boolean)
Dim strSubject As String
strSubject = Item.Subject
If Len(Trim(strSubject)) = 0 Then
Prompt$ = "Subject is Empty. Are you sure you want to send the Mail?"
If MsgBox(Prompt$, vbYesNo + vbQuestion + vbMsgBoxSetForeground, "Check for Subject") = vbNo Then
Cancel = True
End If
End If
End Sub
6. Now whenever u try to send a mail without subject, which will raise a pop-up to remind you
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